Friday, February 27, 2015
Chores Part 1 from Tasha Bradshaw on Vimeo.
Chores Part 2 from Tasha Bradshaw on Vimeo.
*I said in the video that the first chore we give our kids is to unload the dishwasher, I meant to say help with the unloading the silverware! :)
A friend of mine asked me what we do about chores. We have done a variety of different ideas over the years and ages. Overall the ideas that really work are:
1. Be Consistent!
2. Make sure they know what you expect and how you want it done!
3. Start Young. Our kids officially get chores when they are 3. They help pick up their toys and rooms before that. Their first chore is usually to help unload the silverware.
I have a list of what needs to be done each day at home. (It is taken from Daryl Hoole's book, "The Art of Homemaking Today") It is my favorite book.
prepare and serve meals
clean up and sweep kitchen
spot-clean bath fixtures, mirrors, and floors
pick up throughout house
wash and fold clothes
remove snow in season
I look at the list and ask myself what the kids are capable of helping with on the list and what would help us to get a great start on the day.
Here are some of the chores at our house:
Unload the dishwasher (I start it every night so that it is ready in the morning)
Unload the silverware
Get snacks and water bottles (the school kids have to take a snack everyday)
Empty trash cans from bathrooms and office into the large kitchen trash
Bathroom wipe down (using clorox cleaning wipes clean bathrooms sinks and toilets)
Help the 4 year old make her bed
We don't rotate chores, because I assign chores based on ability. Every several months we re-evaluate and change things up. (in the summer we don't need a daily snack person, so we think of a new needed chore)
The rule at our house is that you have to do chores and make your bed before school or you get 3 extra chores after school. They are usually really good at getting it done in the morning!
I again use the weekly list from Daryl Hoole's book to evaluate what the kids can help with on Saturday jobs:
change bed and bath linens
damp-mop hard floors
carry out trash
iron and mend
plan weekly menu and grocery shop
water indoor plants
mow and edge lawn in season
tend garden in season
rake leaves in season
sweep porches and steps
I will send a link with examples of our Saturday work. http://www.organizeddinner.blogspot.com/2012/06/saturday-work.html
It talks about "treasure boxes" on the Saturday work list. Treasure boxes are rubbermaid containers that each child has for their personal treasures (i.e. junk mom would probably throw away!) That is their special place for anything they want. Some kids keep McDonald's toys and tons of art projects that they have made. The only rule is that the lid must fit on! It is a great solution to giving them space to do what they want and keeping their rooms uncluttered and organized like I want!
Chore Motivation and Charts
Right now we are in a pretty good grove and the kids are all quick to get done what they need to. In the past we have used fake dollar bills and they get "paid" for doing their chores. They used their fake money to buy screen time or special dates with mom and dad. We have used charts to mark. We have also used the online App called My Job Chart to mark of their responsibilities.